Blog

The Beauty of Difficult Conversations, Part 2

💘 💘 💘 Does an anxious feeling keep you from having a conversation with the person you’re dating? Or, maybe you avoided certain topics...

0 views0 comments

The Beauty of Difficult Conversations, Part 1

Are there topics you avoid with the person you’re dating? LikeTaylor. She’s dating Bryan. When he talks about his ex-girlfriend, she...

3 views0 comments

Waiting for your partner to change - part 4

When I was dating, I thought I was a catch. So I gave the benefit-of-the-doubt to the men out there.

6 views0 comments

Waiting for Your Partner to Change, Part 3 (What Would Viola Davis Do?)

One of the most important things we can do this year is to get rid of things that aren’t working. Like in our relationships.

12 views0 comments

Waiting for Your Partner to Change, Part 2

You’re trapped in wishful thinking. But you don’t know the real reason you’re staying. And that’s where coaching comes in.

5 views0 comments

Waiting for Your Partner to Change, Part 1

There are so many reasons women stay in relationships that don’t suit them.

7 views0 comments

Wondering if You Should Keep Dating?

Maybe you’ve been dating for two months. Or two years. Maybe you’ve told yourself or friends “I’m just having fun.”

11 views0 comments

Don’t Always Trust First Impressions

First impressions can be wrong. Because sometimes people are really nervous, especially on first dates.

3 views0 comments

Pretty Woman Sucks

When I saw “Pretty Woman” in 1990, I thought it was the best thing since “Flashdance.” What a romance!

8 views0 comments

Rose-Colored Glasses

I used to think having rose-colored glasses was great. It was optimistic. Life was beautiful and people were grand! It depends.

4 views0 comments

First Date Freakouts

First dates. Some women don’t want to go on them. They’re super nervous. And freaked. Why?

2 views0 comments

First Dates that Almost Didn’t Happen

I have two friends. Okay, I have more than two friends. But these two are perfect examples of first dates that almost didn’t happen...

6 views0 comments

Dating Apps: I’ll Give It A Try

You’re excited about dating. So you create a dating profile and start dating. But then, things change.

2 views0 comments

Dating App Red Flags

You’re on some dating sites. And you’ve met some interesting folks online. So you’re texting. Emailing...

1 view0 comments

Dating Dealbreakers

Words I sometimes hear when women tell me about the perfect man. They think it’s a dealbreaker. It's not. It’s just a preference.

2 views0 comments

One Reason Women Avoid First Dates

The idea that you’ll have to tell him you’re not a match seems horrifying. It seems easier to avoid the whole first date thing. Why is that?

1 view0 comments

But I’ll Never Find A Keeper Like Keith Urban

In my mind, Keith was my guy. I’d always had big dreams, and marrying a great guy like him seemed like the most normal goal in the world...

5 views0 comments

Sex, Lies & Duplicity (part 6)

In the last blog, I talked about the rough start I had with James. My PTSD was showing up in full force. For example, once I was getting r

72 views0 comments

Sex, Lies & Duplicity (part 5)

The saga continues. I’m getting divorced for the second time. I live in a small townhouse. And there’s lots ahead for me, including a...

51 views0 comments

Sex, Love, and Duplicity (part 4)

At the end of the last blog, I told you about how my second marriage was imploding. I’d gone back to Al Anon meetings in the hopes it...

39 views0 comments

my story

explore

resources

read

review

explore

reach out

Blog